Female bottoms; Dumping the submissive Trope

Female bottoms Dumping the “submissive” Trope “Standard mythology would have you believe that a bottom is a passive, disempowered, self-destructive, needy, whining wimp. We hope you will refrain from believing these things about yourself. We suggest that you see yourself as a full-power bottom” – The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W.…

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BDSMK Ethical Frameworks; Beyond a Conduct Code

BDSMK Ethical Frameworks Beyond a Conduct Code SSC, SSICK, RACK, PRICK, CCC, CORE, CCCC, GGG, BARK, SEAF; and who knows how many others are out there. This community [BDSMK community] is fascinated by acronyms. But these ones are very important, they are BDSMK ethical framework [aka conduct code]. I disagree with that definition though [of…

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Safe & Sane; A Critical No So Popular View

Safe & Sane A Critical No So Popular View First law:  you may not injure a human being or, through inaction, allow a human being to come to harm.   If you are a sci-fi fan like I am, you recognize this law. Asimov laws, or The Three Laws of Robotic. Yeah, I know, a…

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