Posts Tagged ‘lifestyle’
Female bottoms; Dumping the submissive Trope
Female bottoms Dumping the “submissive” Trope “Standard mythology would have you believe that a bottom is a passive, disempowered, self-destructive, needy, whining wimp. We hope you will refrain from believing these things about yourself. We suggest that you see yourself as a full-power bottom” – The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W.…
Read MoreService; A Lost Skill
Service A Lost Skill Unpopular opinion, service oriented submission is a fallacy. Now, before you lose your marbles and start screaming at your scream, let Me/me explain. Is my belief that if you identify as a submissive, you inherently should like to serve, after all, what’s a submissive if not a people pleaser, isn’t? Yet,…
Read MorePower Exchange; Unpacking the Essence of Giving and Receiving Control
Power Exchange Unpacking the Essence of Giving and Receiving Control “To fall at the feet of an imperious mistress, obey her mandates, or implore pardon, were for me the most exquisite enjoyments…” – JEAN-JACQUES ROUSSEAU | 1765 Yes, one of the most influential minds of the Siècle des Lumières [Age of Enlightenment] was a very…
Read MoreFemale Tops; Not Just Dommes
Female Tops Not Just Dommes As always, nuances are important when it comes to giving meaning to words, especially the words we use to identify ourselves and others. For many years I was unable to grasp the importance of differentiating between Top and Dominant. You may ask: “why it’s having clarity about roles important?”. Well,…
Read MoreFinding a NON Professional Domme; The Utopia of Receiving Without Giving
Finding a NON Professional Domme The Utopia of Receiving Without Giving This one it’s DEEPLY personal, so I might be a little bit more . . . cheeky[?] Let’s make this VERY AND ABUNDANTLY clear. . . Tributes it’s not about buying love, darling, it’s about showing fucking respect! Let’s set the record straight…
Read MoreTribute; More Than Just Cash
Tribute More Than Just Cash 100% of sensual desires begin in our minds. One image. That image that you have stuck in your mind and you want to see it come true. You know how it looks in your mind but you need someone to make it come to life. After all, that image that…
Read MoreAftercare; A Sign of Emotional Responsibility
Aftercare A Sign of Emotional Responsability Definitely one of my favorite words. As a word lover that perfect match between “after” and “care” dazzles me. I mean, the “after” plart implies that comes after something, and I choose to believe that before was really good!. The “care” tell us that no matther how that before…
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