Coffee Date with Miss Abby
Coffee Dates are the best way to get to know someone. Meeting a new person can be a very stressful experience. This it’s especially true when it comes to the first encounter with the person you wish to make your desires come true. For this reason Miss Abby designed a low pressure process where conversations come natural, so it’s easier to share experience and desires necessary for building trust while having a casual conversation.
Coffee Dates aren’t play meetings, neither are interrogations. Are a relaxed and informal meeting in a neutral setting that helps reduce anxiety and stress associated with more “formal” dates. Unlike a munch, you will be the focus of Miss Abby’s attention, and unlike a session where activities require significant focus or engagement, Coffee Dates center around conversation only, allowing both parties to learn more about each other.
Coffee Dates are one of the steps on the process through which Miss Abby explores people’s minds to be able to compose their Sensualist Profile, reason why Coffee Dates are a mandatory step for those who expect booking a session with Her.
Coffee Dates can be scheduled at any hour of the day or any day of the week, making it convenient for people with challenging hours.
A Coffee Date can easily be extended if the date is going well or cut short if it’s not, without significant social awkwardness.
A Coffee Date DOES NOT necessarily mean that Miss Abby agrees to a session, mentorship or any kind of kink relationship. Just means that you manage to pick Her attention.
Why Coffee Dates Are A Good Idea?
Don't you sometimes feel that finding like minded person with enough knowledge and personal experience with whom to talk to and that can give you good advice can prove to be challenging?.
Miss Abby believes in the democratization of health and knowledge, with the same passion with which She believes in the need for connection through meaningful encounters; reason why She came up with this flexible concept.
But beyond Miss Abby’s desire of making kink interactions more accessible and empathics, there’s also the fact that a good session, mentorship, dynamic or relationship it’s always based on communication, trust and chemistry. You wouldn't want to tell all your most intimate deep secrets and desires to a complete stranger, would you?! Coffee Dates are the perfect opportunity to get rid of all the awkwardness of those nerve racking first meetings while establishing a bond that allows honest, respectful and direct communication.
Also, Coffee Dates are the safest vetting method for all parties involved. The public nature of the Coffee Dates make them ideal for initial meetings while staying safe, making it possible to foster a comfortable and friendly space for both parties to interact and learn more about each other within the perfect environment for meaningful conversation.
Customizable Options
Miss Abby understands that motivations can vary from person to person, you can choose the Coffee Dates cycle that fits best with your personal needs/desires.
✓ Coffee Date for Sensualist Profile: 4 dates.
✓ Coffee Date for Designing Personalized Scene: 6 dates.
✓ Coffee Date for Mentoring Consideration: 6 dates.
✓ Coffee Date for Session Consideration: under Mistress Abby’s discretion.
How to Book a Coffee Date with Miss Abby?
You must send a Coffee Date Invitation to Miss Abby. Once Miss Abby receives your invitation She will assess if you are a good candidate. If the evaluation is positive you will receive an email from Miss Abby accepting your invitation, in which case you must offer tribute depending on the Coffee Date you would like.
Coffee Date Options
Virtual Option:
- 4 conversations (45 min each)
- $30 per conversation.
- A 50% tribute fee must be paid in a period not exceeding 5 days after Mistress Abby’s acceptance of invitation. If such tribute it’s not made, the Coffee Date will automatically be canceled without any notification.
- Once the tribute has been made, you must send the receipt (screenshot, transfer receipt) to Mistress Abby’s email. You will receive an email from Mistress Abby confirming the Coffee Date with the information of the day and time.
IRL Option:
- 4 online conversations (45 min each)
- 4 in-person encounters (2 hours each)
- $80 per encounter.
- A 50% tribute fee must be paid in a period not exceeding 5 days after Mistress Abby’s acceptance of invitation. If such tribute it’s not made, the Coffee Date will automatically be canceled without any notification.
- Once the tribute has been made, you must send the receipt (screenshot, transfer receipt) to Mistress Abby’s email. You will receive an email from Mistress Abby confirming the Coffee Date with the information of the day, and time for your first online conversation.
What are you Tributing For?
We recommend you to visit our Lifestyle section where we have a complete article about Tribute. After you read that you can come back here a learn how your Coffee Date Tribute shows appreciation for:
- Personal Time: setting aside time for a coffee date means dedicating a portion of Her day to focus on building or exploring a relationship.
- Scheduling: coordinating schedules to find a mutually convenient time can require effort, especially for busy individuals. This involves checking calendars, proposing times, and confirming availability.
- Logistics: deciding on a location that is convenient for both parties involves considering travel time, accessibility, and the environment of the coffee shop.
- Preparation: before the date, Mistress Abby spends time preparing conversation topics, thinking about what you need, what to share, and considering questions She feels will help to achieve a better result.
- Quality Interaction: the opportunity to have undistracted, face-to-face interaction, which can be more meaningful and productive than other forms of communication.
- Emails and Messages: setting up a coffee date often involves a series of emails or messages to propose, confirm, and finalize details. This communication ensures both parties are on the same page regarding time, place, and expectations.
- Emotional Management: as the most experienced part, it is Mistress Abby's duty to help you handle the emotions that the date may arise, which can involve excitement, curiosity, nervousness and sometimes even fear.
- Building Connections: the primary goal of the coffee date is to build or strengthen a connection, which requires genuine emotional and mental presence during the interaction.
- Effort in Making it Happen: the combined effort of planning, communicating, and preparing for the date signifies a significant investment that goes beyond the actual meeting time. To all that you must add the effort that Mistress Abby puts into her personal appearance, which also takes time and money.
- Follow-ups: after the initial conversation and after each date Mistress Abby always does follow-up to check on and process together the events of the date.
But that it’s just the basic, because each interaction you have with Mistress Abby leaves you with
- Knowledge.
- Support in your exploration of sexuality.
- Satisfaction through needs being met.
- Peace of mind for knowing you are with someone safe, discret and who knows what She’s doing.
Tribute rates are NOT negotiable.
Coffee Dates Rules
All communication with Mistress Abby, whether through writing, audio or video, is subject to a reasonable expectation of privacy. Any violation of such expectation may lead to legal consequences. The expectation of privacy applies to both parties involved, meaning, nor can Mistress Abby discuss with others matters that you entrusted to Her privately, nor can you disclose the contents of your conversations with Mistress Abby to others.
At the moment you send a Coffee Date Invitation to Mistress Abby you are implicitly stating that you have sufficient knowledge about how Mistress Abby’s Coffee Dates work, therefore your expectations are based on the information provided and not on wishful thinking.
By confirming Mistress Abby’s email accepting your Coffee Date Invitation (email: “Your Invitation to a Coffee Date Has Been Accepted”) you are stating you are freely and knowingly engaging with a professional Mistress, and as such you agree to paid tribute to Mistress Abby and follow Her rules.
Mistress Abby reserves the right to request affirmative consent in writing if She deems it necessary; a refusal on your part will be interpreted as a lack of good will and therefore your date may be cancelled without possibility to request any refund.
Is established that everything that is going to be talked and/or negotiated is absolutely consensual and between two willing adults. You need to be at least 25 years old to request a Coffee Date with Mistress Abby.
Even if Coffee Dates are meant to be a relaxed friendly encounter, Mistress Abby reserves the right to leave the date if you do not respect the basic rules of good manners and respect. If you want to cut the date short for any reason, you are allowed to do so. None of these actions imply enough reason to make Mistress Abby to refund any tribute previously made to Her.
Mistress Abby strongly believes in the importance of respect as foundation for a good relationship, thus good manners are important. Mind your language, be friendly and respectful, dress appropriately and be on time. Unpunctuality is enough reason for Mistress Abby to leave a date without possibility to refund.
Mistress Abby is not responsible for anything that goes beyond Her own actions and words. The establishment, the staff, drinks, meals, or any other external elements involved in the Coffee Date are beyond Mistress Abby’s control. You will be responsible for the Coffee Date’s expenses (establishment bill and such).
Ethical non monogamous folks are very welcome to schedule a Coffee Date with Mistress Abby. Those in relationships with a partner who haven’t given consent to this process will not be considered for a Coffee Date.
Mistress Abby is a BDSMK professional Top, not a sexual escort. Under no circumstances Mistress Abby’s services include sexual intercourse or any type of sexual touch that may be deemed as illegal. You will refrain from touching Mistress Abby’s body. You will refrain from making sexual advances to Mistress Abby.
The violation of any of these rules by you will be sufficient reason for Mistress Abby to cut off all communication and/or initiate legal action against you if the case warrants it. Any person who violated the rules will not be able to claim ignorance of said rules as a defense, as well as waive the right to request a refund of any tribute made to Mistress Abby or expenses incurred in the Coffee Date process.