BDSMK Ethical Frameworks; Beyond a Conduct Code

BDSMK Ethical Frameworks Beyond a Conduct Code SSC, SSICK, RACK, PRICK, CCC, CORE, CCCC, GGG, BARK, SEAF; and who knows how many others are out there. This community [BDSMK community] is fascinated by acronyms. But these ones are very important, they are BDSMK ethical framework [aka conduct code]. I disagree with that definition though [of…

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Safe & Sane; A Critical No So Popular View

Safe & Sane A Critical No So Popular View First law:  you may not injure a human being or, through inaction, allow a human being to come to harm.   If you are a sci-fi fan like I am, you recognize this law. Asimov laws, or The Three Laws of Robotic. Yeah, I know, a…

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Consent; More Than Yes

Consent More Than Yes The easiest way to explain consent is saying that it is about a mutual agreement between two or more participants to engage in a specific activity. Sounds simple, right? Well, it should be easy but because some people don’t quite understand the “agree” part, it isn’t.   Let’s make this very…

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Aftercare; A Sign of Emotional Responsibility

Aftercare A Sign of Emotional Responsability Definitely one of my favorite words. As a word lover that perfect match between “after” and “care” dazzles me. I mean, the “after” plart implies that comes after something, and I choose to believe that before was really good!. The “care” tell us that no matther how that before…

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